“If you think you are too small to make a difference,
try sleeping with a mosquito.”
XIV Dalai Lama
Most often, we perceive it as a sudden crisis in professional, family and social activity. The most important question that arises is: why did I let this happen? What now? Is it possible to fix a family, marriage or work situation? Is it possible to somehow merge it all together, start again?
We have no idea what to do with it, and when we cannot deal with an insurmountable obstacle (psychological deprivation), we accommodate the problem. This means, simply speaking, that we get used to it and allow it to... live peacefully and freely. And this is just the beginning of real trouble.
Over time, the problems not solved in childhood become so serious that their treatment can be extremely difficult.
It is not only worth trying, but the attempt must made according to the principle: "It makes no sense to go through life with a baggage of sharp stones hurting your back."